Read John 15:1-11.

The Gospel John is considered different than the other Gospels.  The writings in John, unlike in the synoptic gospels – according to Matthew, Mark, and Luke – is not written in parables or short sayings of the kingdom of God.  John lacks stories that are common in the synoptic gospels; and, the Gospel of John is enriched with symbolisms in the writings.  John is written as the “spiritual Gospel” – a perspective more theological than historical; yet, is grounded in history.[1]  The three synoptic gospels tell the same story; but from different lenses (Matthew – Jewish; Mark – Gentile; Luke – Healer/Transformer).

This passage in John emphasized the spiritual connection that is important for abundant living.  When this text is read, one finds that the symbolism may have a strong impact.  The allegories may touch the spirit in a way that convicts one to do better!  These words bring to mind some clichés such as:

The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

The apple of your daddy’s eye.

Think about it.  Are you representing the fruit of the tree?  Are you the apple of your father’s eye?  Do you look like or act like your parents?  Are you considered the “bad” apple or the “dead” branch that has to be cut off?

Many desire to grow up to be like their parents or even be or do better than their parents.  What does it take to be like or better than the ones who nurture you?  Many do not desire to be like their parents!  The relationships with parents led to paths that were not beneficial to others or the person.  Regardless of how the relationship affects you, the essence of the relationship with parents is significant.  What are you suppose to be like?  The text in John 15 speaks to you regarding relationships and how they matter.

Bill Withers wrote a song entitled, “Who is He and What Is He To You?”  It was about a man who was walking with his significant other (for the sake of this example, perhaps a woman is reference) and a man passed by, stared at him, and looked at his partner who looked down at the ground.  That initiation of the reaction to the body language of the man walking alone regarding this significant other prompted the question, and several other speculative or imaginative thoughts.

As with many in similar situations, what was probably going on in the man’s mind of Bill Withers’ song was an expression through his lyrics – a belief that the significant other was involved with another person.  He called the person out!  “Who is he, and what is he to you?”

In the Gospel of John, perhaps Jesus is saying the same thing – you started a relationship with him, but you are getting swayed by something or someone else.  Do your mind, soul, spirit, and energy want to be with Jesus?  However, you are tempted to take your eyes off him!  This is a triangular relationship!  A love triangle!  “Who Is He and What Is He to You?”